Primadonna1214 Blabz

Story of my life
Searching for the right
But it keeps avoiding me
Sorrow in my soul
cause it seems that wrong
really loves my company

 

Hes more than a man
and this is more than love
the reason that this guy is blue
the clouds are rolling in
because I’m gone again
and to him I just can’t be true

 

and I know that he knows I’m unfaithful
and it kills him inside
to know that I am happy with some other guy
I can see him dying

 

I don’t wanna do this anymore
I don’t wanna be the reason why
Everytime I walk out the door
I see him die a little more inside
I don’t wanna hurt him anymore
I don’t wanna take away his life
I don’t wanna be…
a murderer

 

I feel it in the air
as I’m doing my hair
preparing for another day
A kiss up on my cheek
He’s here reluctantly
as if I’m gonna be out late
I say I won’t be long
Just hanging with the girls
A lie I didn’t have to tell
Because we both know
where I’m about to go
and we know it very well

 

cause I know that he knows I’m unfaithful
and it kills him inside
to know that I am happy with some other guy
I can see him dying

 

I don’t wanna do this anymore
I don’t wanna be the reason why
Everytime I walk out the door
I see him die a little more inside
I don’t wanna hurt him anymore
I don’t wanna take away his life
I don’t wanna be…
a murderer

 

I’ve lost
His trust
I might as well jus take a gun and put it to his head
Get it over with
I don’t wanna do this
Anymore (anymore)

 

I don’t wanna do this anymore
I don’t wanna be the reason why
Everytime I walk out the door
I see him die a little more inside
I don’t wanna hurt him anymore
I don’t wanna take away his life
I don’t wanna be…
a murderer (a murderer)

 

No no no no

 

Yeah yeah yeah

 

 

 

A girl kept slipping letter in her ex-bf’s locker everyday…

hiding herself in the codename “ms. incomplete” without

giving the guy a clue! The girl closely watches as her

ex-bf reads each letter everyday..

one day, to the girl’s surprise as she

was about to slip another letter,

she read a note on the guy’s locker saying..

“ms. incomplete, i think i’m falling for you, all over again.”

 

You are my sweetest downfall
I loved you first, I loved you first
Beneath the sheets of paper lies my truth
I have to go, I have to go
Your hair was long when we first met

Samson went back to bed
Not much hair left on his head
He ate a slice of wonder bread and went right back to bed
And history books forgot about us and the bible didn’t mention us
And the bible didn’t mention us, not even once

You are my sweetest downfall
I loved you first, I loved you first
Beneath the stars came fallin’ on our heads
But they’re just old light, they’re just old light
Your hair was long when we first met

Samson came to my bed
Told me that my hair was red
Told me I was beautiful and came into my bed
Oh I cut his hair myself one night
A pair of dull scissors in the yellow light
And he told me that I’d done alright
and kissed me ’til the mornin’ light, the mornin’ light
and he kissed me ’til the mornin’ light

Samson went back to bed
not much hair left on his head
Ate a slice of wonderbread and went right back to bed
Oh, we couldn’t bring the columns down
Yeah we couldn’t destroy a single one
And history books forgot about us
And the bible didn’t mention us, not even once

You are my sweetest downfall
I loved you first

 

This is a very good reminder for all of us. 

This would give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your better-half, friends, officemates and all the people around you, especially your “boss“ . The rules of practicing “ugaling langit, ugaling kaaya-aya” :

#1 Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.

#2 Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa. Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong nakikipag- away sa inyo.

#3 Ang taong galit, ‘bingi.’ If someone is angry, wala raw pinakikinggan, so, don ‘t try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.

 

#4 Ang taong galit, ‘abnoy.’ Ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? because the Lord said when He was crucified, “Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa.” Modern term for these kinds of people are abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.

You should also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to mature. Hangga’t andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away those people; it’s for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You’ll know na mature ka na pag dumating ‘yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.

#5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na, because of this person, “I will grow mature,” and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.  . 

 

nin·com·poop  (nnkm-pp, nng-) n. A silly, foolish, or stupid person. nincom·pooper·y n.

Noun

1.

nincompoop - a stupid foolish person ninny, poop simpleton, simple - a person lacking intelligence or common sense

 

Dear Hon,

Here is to a man I thought I’d never know. The one who stole my heart so innocently, but with care and grace and perfect love. The perfect thought is us together forever. The sweetest word is your name. And the greatest thing is your love. Every silent prayer that has left my mind, all the empty words that have left my mouth and chased my lips, and all the lonely tears that have escaped my eyes have made me who I am, one to love you more. All the times I felt I’ve found the one, and all the times I’ve mourned over a bleeding heart, all the times I’ve given it all I’ve got is are as many as I have found my face in the mud.  All the pieces of myself I’ve given  all the things I wished I hadn’t helps me love you with purity and certainty. All the times we fight feels like we’re gambling our lives. I hope we never lose. I love you so much, those five words I tell you so much can’t have more meaning than anything else ever possibly could. I love you with all my faults and all my achievements. I love you with all that I am. I love you for who you are. I hope in the quietest of the night when I whisper out to you you know just what to do. You listen to hear my voice echoing how much I love you.

Love Always,

Honey

Is it possible
That someone like you
Could complete me?

You’re the only one I want
The only one I think about
The only one I truly love

You’ve treated me wrong sometimes
As I’ve done the same
But everyone makes mistakes
And your not one of mine

Be with me for the rest of time
I’ll give you my heart
And you give me your mind

I met you before Valentines Day
More than seven months ten days I saw your face
You came down from heaven and opened my eyes

Your  so nice, so tender
Smile so bright, so loving

I have thought about you in every way
Just sitting and wondering about that day

We laughed, we smiled
We talked for a long while

That day with you was so great
And everyone passing is only more wonderful
I love you more now, than ever before

Thank you Ayan for this award…yaiks sobrang drama..nweiss ayan sobrang mamimiss kita and siguro ito na yung maiiwanan mo sa akin para palagi kitang maaalala…ay meron pa pala…yung pangaasar mo sa amin ni Apollo…hehehe..goodluck..just keep in touch..

Haaaaaaaaay………..

 The Trap of Tomorrow

Tomorrow. Tomorrow can be feared, or desired. Tomorrow could be anything. Tomorrow could be nothing. This unpredictability of tomorrow is why we must live in the present. You could die today. You could die tomorrow. Wasting your time thinking about tomorrow is a terrible idea. Fearing tomorrow is just as bad as wanting tomorrow. Whatever tomorrow has in store for you will happen. Tomorrow will come soon enough. In fact, tomorrow will come too soon. Screw tomorrow. Live for today. Tomorrow will come whether you like it or not, so stop worrying about it. It’s pointless. Living for tomorrow is a veil that can blind anyone; be strong, don’t be blinded by it.

The Trap of Yesterday

Yesterday. Was yesterday good or bad? Why do you even care? Are you ever going to feel what you felt yesterday again? Probably. BUT are you going to be in that EXACT situation ever again? Hell no. Yesterday is over. Whatever happened yesterday is done and over with, and is a part of you life forever. Live for today, yesterday could have been the best day of your life, it could have been the worst day of your life, it could even have been an average day. What difference does it make? It’s over no matter what. Live in the present no matter how terrible the present is. Don’t forget about those great memories of yesterday, they are all you have. But don’t dwell on them. Look to the past only when you want to remember an old friend, or an old place, or an old feeling, or an old situation. Remembering a great feeling every now and then is completely different than living in that feeling, or trying to make that feeling last longer than it was meant. Again, live for today. It’s all that matters.

The Trap of Giving up on Love

Love makes the world go round. We have all had disastrous love experiences. By letting that pain you felt during that hard time will only make your life less of an adventure. If you keep trying, you will find a person who you love, and who you would die for, and a person who would die for you, and who loves you. Keep looking, Keep loving, keep searching. You’ll find him. Do not let the pain of the yesterday hold you back today. NEVER give up on love. Love is why your alive today. Your parents probably loved each other at some time if they do not love each other today. Think about it. Someone has loved you, return that love to the him.

The Trap of not Fighting

Ever want to give up? Of course. We all want to give up. We all want the easy way out. If you give up every time you will fail to live your life to its fullest. Keep fighting through it. You’ll get out. I promise you’ll get out. Whether it is by death or with life, you will get out. You must keep trying to achieve what you want. If you give up now, all the time you spent yesterday will have been in vain, and tomorrow will be forever changed. Keep fighting through the toughest times of your life, they will pass. Keep going!!!

 

I believe that it’s really important to have friends around us who we can laugh with, cry with, have fun with, support, trust and love. I also believe that we should have friends that build us up and spur us on rather than friends who tend to crush us and bring us down.

The people who we hang out with will have such a massive influence on our life. They will shape us without even knowing it. That’s fine if we’ve got healthy friendships with great people. However, if a friends start doing things that we disagree with or are uncomfortable with, then we need to ask ourself the question, ‘Are they the right people for me to be hanging out with?’

I’m not saying that all our friends have to be Christians and I’m not saying that wehave to ditch all of our mates and become a lone-ranger…that would be stupid. What I am saying is be careful. If were friends with someone who gossips all the time and we find ourself gossiping with them, then I suggest we have to think carefully about whether or not that’s a good relationship for us to be in. If being friends with someone puts pressure on us to smoke or do things we don’t want to do, then the same thing applies…is that a good relationship to be in?

A good friend is someone that accommodates your faults and vice-versa. They need to put as much into the relationship as you do. You need to be there for each other. A friendship is a two-way thing and if one of the parties has lost interest in the friendship, then it is important to realize either that he/she needs space and a little time, or that not all friendships are destined to work out.

The main thing to remember is have fun. Friendships are for fun times and if it’s not fun for you anymore, try to sort out why.

I will end this by saying…If a True Friend values FRIENDSHIP. They will try to be neutral and not to be biased so as the purpose in the end will be betrayal..

Trust is an essential ingredient of intimacy. It is proportionally related to the depth of comfort and connection between intimate lovers. The greater the trust, the deeper the love grows. At the same time, this highly desired emotion might be hard to obtain, sustain and recover if it is lost.

Trust allows people to become emotionally and physically vulnerable in love. Believing that the partner is accepting, kind and loving affords partners the security to let go and be themselves. Without trust, it is unsafe to be intimate.

Trust is manifested in many areas:

Psychological trust is the confidence in the partner’s positive regard, love and protectiveness.

Physical trust presumes sexual fidelity and entails respect of the mate’s body, physical wishes, limitations and the sincere desire to please him/her.

Emotional trust involves feeling respected and supported with one’s emotions, their meaning, expression and significance.

Financial trust honors the mutual understanding between the mates regarding sharing, spending and allocation of funds.

Intellectual trust is the valuing of one’s ideas, opinions and attitudes, even when the partner disagrees.

Trust also covers the areas of accountability, honesty, reliability and decency toward the mate. When partners share trust, they are secure in being accepted as they are, know that they will be treated with a deep positive regard and that their best interests will always be foremost in the partner’s mind and actions.

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05 Sep 2007My Personal Sentiments

“What I felt and learned during the past few days”

 

The vigilance for preserving our primary importance to the partner and to other people like friends calls to question actions that appear to be even slightly disloyal.

I’ll give you examples of what I felt during these fast few days:

“When my partner missent a message that was not for me. (I thought that he was having an affair with another girl).

“When he denied that he missent his text” (It went out to my mind that he was a liar)?

” When I confided to some friends about my problems and they told other people about it” (I can no longer trust them with my private emotions).

” When I thought that they are my friends but they kinda betrayed me” (I know that they can no longer be my Friends)

I am a certified insecure person and my boyfriend knows that. And I already told him that. My statements are propelled by fear of lost significance of an insecure person. And I know that the more unhappy I am, the more likely I mistrust my partner’s devotion.

For you hon I know that I’ve given you a hard time and it felt quite burdensome to you. That I have accusations, assumptions and innuendoes about your behavior or intentions. It is sometimes impossible to refute an accusation of bad intention. I know that you often felt minimized, disrespected, attacked and shamed.

I know that I violated my trust in you, sometimes you felt that I betrayed you and you often profoundly wounded. I question my own worth as well as doubting your character. I told you that lost trust is hard to rebuild. Once a betrayal occurs the possibility of recurrence is further feared. The trust, loyalty and confidence, which have been the foundation of our relationship, can no longer be taken for granted. Betrayal causes an emotional earthquake for both of us which requires time and tools to restore the stability and security of our union.

If this thing happens the other parties concern should:

Respect your mate’s concern and check with yourself to see whether the assumptions bear any truth.

If the accusation is of merit, admit your part and suggest a repair idea.

If the mistrust is unwarranted, provide reassurance to your partner without becoming defensive.

If you have been disloyal: apologize, promise to never repeat the action, reassure your mate of her worth and increase your expressions of appreciation and love.

I also learned that if I ever felt mistrusting my partner’s loyalty I should consider doing the following:

First is to check myself and to see whether these are my own feelings ascribed to my partner.

If I find myself assigning behaviors or intentions that are just my own, I will not accuse my partner, but rather I ask for an explanations.

I will try to maintain a good sense of self worth by doing whatever affirms my value. Being insecure may lead to mistrust of partner.

When my partner denies the accusations, I will permit myself to trust him. If the trust is unwarranted, it will be discovered soon enough. If your partner is sincere, you both will be enriched by mutual trust and confidence in each other.

Trust can be rebuilt, repaired, restored and intensified by willing and motivated partners

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03 Sep 2007My Personal Sentiments

When is Flirting becomes Cheating?

Flirting or Cheating? E-mailing or texting an ex or having some issues/affair with another man/woman?

The e-mail and texting exchange per se isn’t a cheat (depending on exactly what’s exchanged, of course). But, for many people, any contact beyond a few truly platonic and innocent “just catching up” messages is a relationship-killer-not because of the act itself, but because of the potential act that may follow.

Flirting becomes cheating when you feel like you are doing something wrong! And clearly you feel that way since she is unaware. People have the right to make informed decisions so try being honest!

But for me, I think flirting becomes some format of cheating if the other person doesn’t know about it. Would you like to be kept in the dark if it was you? Put yourself in her shoes for once.

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